I want to thank all the guys out there who give it their all during oral sex. And we know how much it reaffirms your masculinity when we That said, there are a few um, more than a few of you out there who could use a little help in getting us there.
Photo via Flickr user PhilandPam. Previously, I put out a public inquiry trying to find straight men who proudly do not eat pussy. I thought I could find at least a few guys down to talk and explain themselves.
Whether you use the technical term fellatio or call it a blowjob, going down, giving head, or something else, performing fellatio is an act that requires a lot of trust and a little bit of knowledge. If you believe everything you hear, you might think that guys love this so much technique and intent don't matter. Think again.
I once dated a guy who refused to go down on me. As if his dick tasted like an ice cream cone. Friends I confided in at the time suggested I stop giving him blow jobs, to give him a taste of his own medicine. But since I enjoy giving pleasure, no BJs felt like double the punishment.
As someone who writes about sex for a living, I'm asked about blow jobs all the time. Every mouth is different, every penis is different, every man and woman is different. So it shouldn't surprise anyone that each and every blow job is going to be a different, specific experience too.
When it comes to performing oral sexit can be as helpful knowing what not to do as what you should be doing. With some help from my friends, here's a definitive guide of what to avoid when you're going down:. If your hand skills are good enough, you barely have to use your lips.
Stuff we feel neutral about: Chicken pot pie. But one thing you shouldn't have a take-it-or-leave-it attitude towards is tongue action. Oral is the form of sex that the majority of women say is most likely to give them an orgasm, says sex therapist Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First.
First step: Stop thinking of it as a job. Done correctly, oral sex can be satisfying for both of you — so long as you follow this sage advice. Everybody wins! It sounds intimidating, but the payoff is worth it.
Then I Google it and, after reading through the first ten articles, I am disappointed with humanity. Or because it means he gets to momentarily feel powerful. Or because he sees it as payback for all of the things he does for you on a day to day basis yes, these are ALL things that I found in the top search matches.