This is the first in a multi-part series from After Hours about anal play. You can see the other posts in the series as they come out here. The main areas you want to be aware of are the anuswhich is the gateway to the pleasure zone, the anal canaland the rectum.
I'm sure this will come as a surprise to approximately no one, but I'll say it anyway so that we can begin this article coming from a place of truth and understanding -- I'm very into butt stuff. All things revolving around the derriere I find utterly fascinating. Just yesterday, while standing behind bae in the shower, I found it literally impossible not to repeatedly smack his butt while he washed the shampoo from his hair.
While most cases of itchiness at your hole are as mysterious as the black holes in outer space, science does know a few reasons why anal itching might occur, and even how to treat them. So, until the Stephen Hawking of the human butthole unlocks the mysteries of your anus, these explanations are the best we have… for now. By wiping inadequately or not showering enough, fecal matter can stick around longer than you might like, which can irritate the skin.
You can touch my butt, but not the hole. Just anal messing around. Defining our terms seemed important, since these are genres of sex that people get extremely touchy about, so to speak.
If there's anything I know about sex, it's that most people—regardless of gender—like a finger up the butt. When I learned that fact, I knew that I would spend forever being good at sex. That, I'm sure you'll agree, is why the Kanye-Wiz Twitter beef last night was so interesting.
Meanwhile, the ring finger is folded down and out of the way. The thumb just chills there. The fact that a man or anyone!
I was reading other people Anal Sex stories on Reddit and educational articles and just randomly asked about her opinion and thoughts to test the water. She was nor-excited, nor-against. So I moved further.
In straight relationships, a man's butt doesn't have the same level of sexual achievement as the female equivalent. You're probably not going to overhear, "Yeah, and then I totally put it in his butt! Some couples never experiment with ass play, but it's been getting a lot more attention recently, and the conceptions around what if anything straight guys can do with their butts during sex are slowly being changed. There are still a lot of guys out there full disclosure: myself included who don't want anything near their butts.
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But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? Bustle has enlisted Vanessa Marin, a sex therapistto help us out with the details. No gender, sexual orientation, or question is off limits, and all questions remain anonymous.